I've watched my parents from a young age argue quite frequently. This left a lasting impact on me to this day . This morning my boyfriend had court and I had asked him something and I guess I was supposed to know the answer to or it irritated him so hit me on the side of my head.
     I don't take that shit lightly. I told him to go  to court himself and it's not my problem.  He proceeded to tell me that he didn't want to go without me. I finally gave in after a few back and forth refrencing what he had just done . He kept saying that he wasn't trying to hurt me . I argued that if he wasn't he wouldn't have hit me .
   The day goes on with 3 trips to the bailbondsman including 1 with my sister to Co sign.  Him and I get in a heated discussion over lunch/dinner about paying and cosigning and vpo.
His crusty old ass mother blurts out "are you committed to him or not" I was still discussing it with him how his family should be the ones doing it . I hear that snap my head looking at her and said something that shut her up . Don't remember what but I'm sure along the lines of her not having employement, bond money or collatteral. Whatever I did shut her up. She just sat there sipping her drink all pissed off.
   Just because you are committed to someone doesn't make you their bitch .